The Game

I personally hate the game named “The Relationship”.

The reason:

1. Accept him/her everything include the bad habit or attitude.

(People always said “if you love him, you should able to accept how he is. Hello, People! We are not God, We DONT AND WONT ACCEPT THE BAD HABIT OR ATTITUDE OF others people. IF you think you are, then have you criticize or talk bad behind your classmate,coursemate, housemate or even friends when you don’t like them? So if yes, please don’t act holy in this realistic society. You have to make sure that couple is not a MUST to accept the bad habit of each other. Of cause, different people have different limit and point of view of the “bad habit’ or “attitude problem”, that is where we can choose what is the so call bad habit and attitude problem that we able to accept. So, the process here usually people will say to you “aiyo, why you so picky, choosy, high taste, high requirement wan?)

2. Tolerance

After accept the faith and fate of yourself that he/she is your Mr. or Ms. Right, in this section, what ever he do or she do you also will try to tolerate la. Right? Then also know la, people like to take this as granted and they will think that is the right to do this and that and you should accept them.

3. Point of view

I always believe that if a couple that always had different kind of view that both cannot accept by each other, will always argue among the small matter.

4. The Right One

how to define as the right one? you know you without him/her you cant live the rest of your life? that is so fucking bullshit that I personally think. Say a guy reach the age of 26 and meet this girl, and telling the girl without her, he cant live. The girl definitely will fall for the words. Hello, xiao mei mei, without you, he also live for 26 years already. We girls, don’t fall for such words la har. (If you think I am cold-hearted, please be it and tell me I am not worth to be in a relationship and let guys to pamper me, because I won’t care to explain to you, and even explain you also won’t understand)

5.  The One that Love More than The Other One

In a fight between a couple, and the first one who admit he/she is wrong. Then you will lose the game, and the future fight will never win and you will be the always lose. So the one who love more than another one, will be the loser for the game.

6. Breaking up

Okay, I am not saying that breaking up is relationship that have to go through. But, I personally thinks that, in this decades, who never breaks up in their relationship before la? If anyone who reading this and never breaks up please let me know. I really want to know how. The process of breaking up, is seriously the most headache part for me – personally. I been through few relationship also comes to the end. ok ok, you think i am play girl right? Just think whatever is feels right. I also got let people dump before la kay. The most happy one – both agreed to end the relationship. Another type – scolding you a slut a bitch a player and accept the fact that we never able back together. Intermediate type – after scolding you all the 4 letter words and foul language then beg for forgiveness for doing so and accept the fact that we broke up. The advance type – asking all the reason why we are breaking up and explain his/herself and scolding you for not understanding his/her situation, then beg for forgiveness and request to give chances to change and digging out all the history and compare to current telling you they are different from the pass and still not accepting that the VERY TRUE FACT - WE NEVER ABLE BACK TOGETHER.

Out of the 4 types, I think the most hard to settle is the advance type la.

7. The Fall In Love

The process of falling in love is not that hard. Is depends on you have the courage to fall for it or not. But the moment you fall for it, you probably will go through the 6 reason above or maybe 5 exclude the breaking up, you able to handle it?  Do you have enough courage to fall for it and handle it all. If all of above you been go through then you probably will starting from this again and go through all of above again and again and waiting for the Mr./ Ms. Right to appear and end the process.